Reignite That Spark

“Hey there this is Christine McPeak I wanted to take a few minutes and just tell you how amazing Alan Watts has been to work With, I had six one-on-one sessions with him and we focused on what it is that I’m looking to attract in a relationship in my life we looked at some past patterns that haven’t been serving me well in past relationships, and in current relationships with friends and family so some things that I can do to soften and be more approachable when that guy, that little bee that’s going to fly around and find me the flower.  We looked at attachment Styles we looked at some good questions for me to ask. I have a lot more confidence going out into the dating world.

Alan even looked at my dating profile and helped me tweak it a little bit so I would if you’re even considering checking out Alan’s work get on a Clarity call with him. The first call just to see if it would be a good fit, was amazing I learned some things right in that first call, so right up to the last end of the last call he was just so helpful and fun to work with and so I encourage you to consider working with Alan if you want a relationship by design.”

“I had been a member of Alan’s groups for a few months, and was drawn to Alan’s open and curious mind also around relationship how they function, why relationships fail…and it was refreshing that Alan was very open and honest about his own experiences…you get the real sense that Alan is there with you on this explorative relationship journey.

After the devastating breakup of my relationship, I decided to reach out to Alan for individual 1:1 weekly support…this proved to be invaluable…it came at the perfect time for me to start to come to terms and begin my relationship breakup journey…via zoom we commenced the sessions initially I was like a very closed book extremely distraught, unable to maintain eye contact or express myself freely…I was well and truly hidden behind a massive steel/brick/concrete wall, and found it difficult to open up, which I knew I had to start to do in order to heal.

Alan was extremely patient but with it, challenged me at a pace just outside of my comfort zone at times, which I really needed (but may not have thought so at the time!)…Alan didn’t come with script of responses to my issues.

Clearly, he had a wealth of skills and knowledge using a CBT type approach, however it felt personal, Alan allowed me to vent…there would be moments of silence as he reflected on my pain, and would give me exercises and meditation techniques to look at certain areas of my life.

I particularly enjoyed the meditations where I took myself off to the beach! There were also moments of ‘Old Mcdonald Had a Farm’ thrown in, so there was laughter and a sense of balance throughout, by midway I started to gain a real understanding of myself…which I began to realise was the most important thing, not my ex or what he thought, or anyone else for that matter.

This was a new way of thinking for me, and so the pathway to start loving myself began, I found myself becoming more confident in work and personal environment. I started to nurture my inner child, and continue to take care of her on a daily basis, I started to treat myself, just little things like a soak in the bath, keep time, learning to say no!

By the end of the 12 weeks (I felt quite sad that this journey had ended), but I know 100% that these sessions absolutely helped in dealing with the end of my relationship and gave me a renewed sense of hope for the future.

Thank you so much!”

“I had 3 months coaching with Alan, and It’s really been an eye-opener. He has such a pragmatic and logical approach to his coaching. A toolbox of tricks and techniques that are really impactful too.

He taught me about love languages (gamechanger) and helped me stop using my old relationship stories with new men I date. I’m learning to get out of my head more and stop bringing old baggage to new relationships. He offers such insightful perspectives, too. It’s literally like a lightbulb goes off with every coaching call.

I have so much clarity now. He is like the wiser best friend that you would go to for advice. I think as a woman, it’s great to get a man’s perspective on relationships, so I really valued Alan’s advice. He is literally the secret weapon every woman should have.

Thank you so much for your caring, realistic, empathic, no BS approach to coaching, it’s been such a pleasure working with you. If I could afford to, I would have Alan on speed dial for every issue that I come across.

His advice is invaluable, so if you are on the fence about working with Alan, just do it, don’t waste any more time. I would not hesitate to recommend friends or clients to Alan.

THANK YOU!”