What Can Romantic Love Learn from the World of BDSM, Kink & D/S?
In the realm of romantic love, there are valuable lessons to be learned from the world of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism), Kink, and D/S (Dominance and Submission). These practices may seem unconventional or misunderstood by many, but beneath the...
The Vital Role of Communication and Respect in Relationship Polarity
Whilst every relationship features attraction and love, these qualities alone are not enough to maintain the chemistry that’s required for a healthy relationship. It’s often overlooked, but the success of a relationship actually comes down to the balance of polarity....
Creating Passionate Connections: The Significance of Balanced Polarity in Relationships
Relationships are hard. Trying to keep the spark alive is challenging and it requires a lot of time, effort and good communication. If you do want to maintain a loving and fulfilling relationship, one concept that is worth considering is the idea that relationships...
Finding Yourself Again – Tips For Healing After A Narcissistic Relationship
Walking away from a narcissist is no small feat. It takes a lot of courage and strength to end a narcissistic relationship not least because narcissists tend to use manipulation and abuse to control their partners. This often leaves you feeling alone, with low...
Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist: How to Emotionally Protect Yourself
As a relationship coach, I often encounter clients in relationships with narcissists. Narcissism is a personality disorder where the afflicted individual has an inflated sense of self-importance, a lack of empathy, and a constant need for admiration and...
The Truth About Narcissistic Personality Disorder – How To Identify If You’re In a Relationship With a Narcissist.
I don’t know about you, but right now it seems like there’s a conversation about narcissists going on everywhere I go. In recent years, our world has become increasingly more narcissistic, spurred on by a generation obsessed with their image and self-promotion on...
Wounded Energies and Egoic Relationships
What happens when masculine or feminine energies are wounded either as a result of previous intimate relationships or unhealed childhood wounds? Firstly, wounded energies attract wounded energies, and continue to do so until these wounds are healed, sadly these wounds...
Tuning Out the Wrong Kind of Potential Partners
Do you find you keep attracting the wrong kind of partner or the same kind of partner? Do you keep finding potential partners who don’t match your desires? Way back before digital radios, when you had to tune a radio manually with an adjuster wheel & a pointer on...
The Bitter Pill
Where relationship issues really are :- the bitter pill to swallow. For many years with my own dating journey I had many issues, most of which could be simplified into the following 4 categories. 1) I wasn’t good enough for them, 2) they were too needy or smothering...
Shadow Work
Shadow work is something many people are fearful to do. It involves accessing those parts of the self that are shut away, sometimes for many years. What’s behind this shutting away parts of ourselves? Imagine for a moment being scared of the dark, the house you live...
Over Mothered Women / Daddy Issues
Disclaimer - this is written from being an observer without knowing what its like for the girl on the inside other than the deep insights that have been shared with me over the years. In yesterdays "Over mothered boys" post I shared that "Men who have not separated...
Over Mothered Men – Are They Real?
Over Mothered Men - are they real? Is there such a thing? How do you know if you have one? How do you know if you are one? A boy gains his heroism by being his mother's hero, rather than learning to be his own hero. (Especially in Stage 1 of the keys to the kingdom)....